I'm so sad today, probably because two weeks ago the lawyer says we are at the end of the road and the US Consulate will not look at any additional evidence, or change anything about the decision regarding the 10 year bar my husband received.:( :( So Sad the man I love with all of my being is not able to live with me in our home. This makes me very sad. I miss him so much and want to fix it and I can't. I don't think I can move to Mexico because I wouldn't be able to get a FM3 without a income for the last 3 months. My husband can't even get a job in the area he lives. So what to do???? I wish I had the answer. Did you ever notice how hard it is to carry on a relationship without being in the same country? I'm complaining and my poor hubby is the one that got everything taken from him. He is such a sweet man with a heart of gold, everyone he meets loves him. He is a child magnet all the kids love him. My niece who is 10 yrs old wrote a paper in class about her uncle and how she misses him. She made her teacher cry. Is that sweet or what! My nieces are twins and they love their uncle Juan so much. It makes me so sad that they have not seen him in almost 2 years. Juan is such a gentle soul and I love him so much I love his sweet heart! I miss his sweet heart! I miss the gentleness that he shows me and the kindness he shows me!
Very Sad Day part II
My friend is going through a huge trial with her husband. He has been unfaithful to her yet again! How sad! She told me today that she would like to crawl under a rock and not come out for 20 years. This breaks my heart! I hope that things will get better as time wounds all heals or wait it is time heals all wounds! You know what I mean. I haven't been able to even look at him or speak to him because of what he did to his wife. He moved out 2 weeks ago after the truth came out about his escapades.
Hi Karol. I've been down here for over a year, and doing it on a tourist visa. I've been lucky enough to afford to make two trips back to the states so that I could then reenter with a new 6 mo. visa. However, the money is now gone for travel and I'm working on my FM3. I'm in the same situation: neither my husband nor I have work, and so can't show income. I wanted to point out, though, that if HE can find a job, or income or someone saying that they'll pay him, you can get an FM3 by being his wife. I believe that by being the housewife of a Mexican you can get the FM3 and you won't need to demonstrate the same amount of income as you would otherwise. Since he's Mexican they cut some slack and you don't have to earn as much. They figure your husband will be financially responsible for you. Let me say, now, that I'm not positive of this, and I haven't yet gotten my own FM3, so please check it out for yourself. If he can't get a job, he might at least be able to find someone who will say they'll pay him, which might work. Anyway, best of luck, and HANG IN THERE! It's tough being in MX, but worth it to be together, and one does adjust with time! Just keep being good to each other and you'll make it through. That's what I keep telling myself, anyway.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the words of encouragement........it means alot to me!
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